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I didn’t really mind about being teased again. My uncle always teased me about who I was dating. But he meant well. Asking if I was madly in love and generally wanting to remind me that a good boyfriend would look after me. He is the type to make sure that I’m not spending time with someone who treats me poorly.
When I admitted I really liked Mr. Special he asked if I was feeling brave yet or still super shy around him. Shy of course. Always shy. That’s just how I am. He smiled and asked if I wanted a little help to relax with him. I knew what he meant. My uncle is a hypnotist. And he does that type of stuff. Relaxing his clients and helping them do better at life or sports or whatever the issue is.
I’ve always been shy of being hypnotized too. He has had me thinking I ate my pillow before. And forgetting name. Harmless stuff and kind of fun. But of course this would be different this would be about my boyfriend.
In just a minute I was sitting in the comfy chair with my arms by my side. And he was infront of me, smiling. Think about your toes and take a deep breath. Breath in. Hold, and slowly breath out. And again. In, hold and slowly out.
Tingly toes. Wiggle them to get comfy. And feeling my toes relax so much. Breathing. In, hold and slowly out. Feeling the tingles coming up my legs and just watching him as he told me how good it felt to let them spread up and up.
By the time the tingles reached my tummy my legs were gone. I didn’t know or care what happened to them. I just kept breathing as the tingles came up to my shoulders and down to my fingers. My arms were gone too. All that mattered was feeling warm and safe and comfy.
When the tingles climbed in behind my eyes I closed them and tumbled down into the warm comfy feeling of going under. All that mattered was listening and sleeping. Nothing else. Just the words thinking for me.
I was at the beach in my dream. Walking along the sand in the warm sun. Listening to the waves. I was learning something about my knee. It didn’t matter. I was just warm and safe and learning and being good.
The beach was so long and each step just took me along it. And then I was waking up. My uncle was smiling. Calling me a sleepy head and I was sitting in the chair again. Hypnosis all done. I couldn’t recall anything except warm happiness.
He explained that he had given me some suggestions to make things easier and less shy with my boyfriend. And then he asked if he wanted me to show him how it worked so I knew what to expect. I wanted to know. He warned me it was going to feel very personal but that all he was going to do was touch my knee, nothing else. Ok. Ready.
I gasped the moment he touched my knee. I felt way more than his hand on my knee. I could feel someone cupping me between my legs. Just gently holding me safe and comfy. But there. Without thinking I opened my legs wide. I could feel the hand cupping me fully as I opened up.
He asked if I was ok? I could only nod. Its really close isnt it? Nodded again. I looked down. His hand was no where near. Just touching my knee. As he started to rub my knee I could feel my vulva being rubbed. And nothing else mattered. I just wanted to be touched in every way.
He took his hand away and I regained my composure. What was that? He told me that it would help me relax with my boyfriend. No other explanation. But I knew from how I felt that his patients must look forward to his help.
On the weekend my boyfriend invited me to the pool. Time in a swimsuit in public isn’t on my list of things to do but I’m trying to be more adventurous for him. I went. I changed in the family room for some privacy and I wore my one piece. It at least covers a little more.
I got talked into the hot tub easily. The swirling water hides me so that only my shoulders stick out. Its a great way to feel less exposed. And I mean he is a great guy but nervous just happens so easy for me. What if I say or do the wrong thing? All we’ve done so far is kiss a couple times and hold hands.
I know he wants more. And I know I’m terrified of going further not really being sure of what to do or how to get there. So sitting in the hot tub with him isn’t so much relaxing as terrifying.
And then he put his hand on my knee. Soft gasp. I felt the imaginary hand between my legs cupping me and I spread my legs wide open. I just didn’t care about being exposed. All I could focus on was feeling the comfy touch between my legs.
As he gently rubbed my knee I squirmed. I felt that rubbing between my legs. I could feel myself becoming aroused but that didn’t matter. I just needed him. He was mine and I wanted him.
He could tell I was feeling it a lot. He smiled. And his hand started slowly drifting up my leg. As soon as he was above my knee I was imagining fingers inside me. I looked at him with need in my eyes. The shy nervous feelings were gone replaced entirely with desire for my guy.
As his hand reached the top of my thigh my brain was lost in sex. Feeling him inside me. He was the one. It needed to happen.
When his fingers playfully teased through my suit my thoughts exploded into cute babies and wanting to be a mom. I had never ever wanted someone so badly as I wanted him in that moment. The hypnosis had full control and was pushing me toward what was so natural between a boy and a girl.
We got interrupted when more people climbed into the hot tub. He let go and acted all normal. But the need did not lessen. There was no undoing how I felt and what I wanted with him.
As I changed out of my suit I was counting the seconds until I could hold his hand as we walked. And when we got to his car I could hear my own voice asking him to take me to his place. I was lost in need and not thinking at all. He is my guy. I need him in every way. And I’m ready.
A little while after we finished I was checking my phone. Without thinking I texted my uncle. I followed instructions. Just those three words. I was surprised to see them on the screen. He answered. Good job, I’m glad you finally relaxed with him.
